A short one [by my standards] about the team i coached today:
The boys definitely went out with the intention to implement the lessons learned this week at training.
I was really pleased with this. The boys showed that they are coachable and keen to apply what is practiced. They can do it. They just need more practice to do it more consistently and against the press.
Mistakes will happen as we develop, and we will concede goals and lose games as a result. I am ok with that. The question might be, however, are the players? I hope so.
We could play differently, and take development out of the question. We could press really high, boot the ball forward at every opportunity, take all risk out of the game, take all intelligence out of the game and hope the opportunities come (without actually creating the opportunities through anything that resembles intelligent play). And don't forget - we could hack, kick and make sure that if we don't get the ball, we get the player and if we get both - its a bonus!! To me, none of this is developmental football. But I could be wrong. It won't be the first time.
As soon as the boys conceded a goal you could see the mindset change and as the game went on, old and bad habits started to creep in, especially when the opposition smelt blood and pressed even more. This indicates that the boys are defining themselves as players by a scoreline, even though they mostly have no control over this at an individual level. Players cannot control mistakes other players make. And developing players need to learn that they are not defined by their mistakes but by the way they learn from them and then shake them off.
A few players dropped their heads because of one mistake. If a player is brave and gets the perfect pitch position to receive, checks and scans and reacts accordingly, only then to have a slightly bad touch which results in a goal being conceded. Then it is wrong to look too closely at the touch, without also looking at all the positives too. I see the positives when they are there. So if a player made a mistake that resulted in goal; Can they think about the bigger picture not just the goal conceded. What did they do right? What could they do Better? What can they practice so the mistake is unlikely to happen again? In a years time, when a player's touch is better, then the same moment turns into a great opportunity to play - as long as that player always preservers and works hard at getting it right.
If possession breaks down after one pass. It doesn't undo all the good work done before that moment. There are always positives, and at this point (as a player), one bad moment does not undo all the good moments that came before, and a score line reflects very little at this point in time. Plenty will disagree and argue that winning is all that matters and winning is development.
I have seen a player (who i worked closely with) play in a game where his team got whacked 12-0 (at U16 level). This player is now playing professionally in Japan. Do you think he cares about that score line now. I don't think he even cared about the score line then, to be honest. He just cared about the things he could control.
Cliche time !!!
The only mistake is to not learn from a mistake. The only fear that is debilitating is the fear of making a mistake. Do not let fear of making a mistake make you make the mistake. Accept that mistakes are inevitable, an so embrace the challenge, not of not making a mistake, but of learning from it and then moving beyond it when you do. The biggest failure in life is not to fail, it is to hide from the opportunity to succeed (because you are afraid of exposure to failure).
The game is a game of mistakes. It is not an exact science. Obviously the less mistakes you make the better a player you will be. But as a player develops - mistakes are an essential part of development. And if a young player isn't making mistakes then they are not playing at the very edge of their ability level, and if they are not playing at this level - they wont push the boundaries of their level.